As a combat medic in Iraq and Afghanistan, Donnie Gist saw the horrors of war firsthand. Back in the States after deployment, Gist‚Ä™s two sisters died a day apart.
‚ÄúI was very depressed and had no way to channel my emotions,‚ÄĚ Gist says, ‚Äúbut I had heard you could work through issues by learning to care for big animals.‚ÄĚ A rodeo cowboy helped him discover a healing love for horses.
Next, Donnie helped veterans in MUST supportive housing to overcome issues that prevent them from living successfully. On an outing to the Calvin Center, an equestrian therapy center in Hampton, Donnie saw new light in the eyes of several veterans as they overcame fears and made friends with the horses.
‚ÄúThey were clearly nervous,‚ÄĚ Gist says. ‚ÄúAt the end, they were smiling and dismounted like cowboys, without any help. The look on their faces said a million words.‚ÄĚ
‚ÄúThe Bronx is not a horse place,‚ÄĚ says the Army veteran, who served nine months in Jalalabad, Afghanistan. ‚ÄúI remember seeing a police horse in Central Park one time. Other than that, I saw some Animal Planet documentaries.‚ÄĚ
When Edwards met his Calvin Center horse for the day, Atticus, something immediately clicked.
‚ÄúWe bonded, in a way,‚ÄĚ Edwards says. The horse was playful with him and kept tugging at his shirt. When Edwards climbed anxiously into the saddle, Atticus seemed to know exactly what he wanted him to do.
‚ÄėGrateful every morning‚Ä™
McDaniel, a former Marine who struggles with PTSD, felt nervous about being around large animals again.
‚ÄúAt first I wondered how I would react around them,‚ÄĚ he says. ‚ÄúBut then I remembered what it was like growing up, and my confidence came back.‚ÄĚ
The experience on horseback helped McDaniel realize in a new way just how much progress he has made through MUST‚Ä™s veterans programs.
‚ÄúI was pretty broken when I got here. There‚Ä™s been a lot of repair work done on me,‚ÄĚ he says. Every now and then, I still turtle up and withdraw into my shell.
‚ÄúNow I know I‚Ä™m in a safe place and I have good people around me,‚ÄĚ McDaniel adds. ‚ÄúI have other vets who check in on me, and I just keep moving forward. I wake up grateful every morning.‚ÄĚ
Edwards, whose warehouse unit was attacked three times in Afghanistan, lives with OCD and finds it difficult to relate to others.
‚ÄúMy first two weeks at MUST, I was always inside. I never came out to talk,‚ÄĚ he recalls. ‚ÄúThen I decided to give it a chance. I mean, what was the worst that could happen? We would exchange stories, and I would learn something.
‚ÄúAs I have grown, these guys have come to be more of a family,‚ÄĚ he adds. ‚ÄúThey all have put their lives on the line, and I have learned a lot from them. Life has steps, and we aren‚Ä™t in a race to the top. You have to take time with each one.‚ÄĚ
Through MUST‚Ä™s veterans services, donors and corporate sponsors help traumatized veterans understand that ‚Äúyour yesterday is not your tomorrow,‚ÄĚ Gist says. ‚ÄúThe support of partners like The Home Depot Foundation lets veterans know somebody appreciates them. It helps veterans learn that they can grow and change.‚ÄĚ
How you can help
Adopt a veteran for Christmas: Contact [email protected]
Serve MUST‚Ä™s veterans in other ways: Email [email protected]
Corporate sponsorship of veterans program: Contact Don Crampton, [email protected]
The Calvin Center‚Ä™s equestrian Therapy program: calvincenter.org
Mark Kelly writes for MUST Ministries.